Valentine’s can be a time that sends those of us whom are uncoupled (I just learned that word, convenient, huh?) into despondency and gloom. It kind of creates the Bah Humbug spirit in us when we see the hearts and flowers, the endless ads with couples looking adoringly into each other’s eyes, even the little kids being all gaga…
It’s enough to makes us want to cry.
Perhaps you would like to try something different this year?
In my own journey, I have finally realized that I’m a pretty amazing person. (For more on that see https://particularpassions.me/2014/01/07/5430/). It doesn’t matter what others think. It doesn’t depend on whether I have a significant other to tell me. It’s all about ME.
Making the choice to celebrate ME.
Seeing the good things in who I am. Finding joy in how I was created. Focusing on those things that help me contribute to others’ lives in a positive way. NOT apologizing for my kinks and uniqueness, but instead enjoying that I am different.
Easy? Nope, never said that.
Possible? Yep, after a bit of work and choosing to do it.
So I made myself a Valentine this year. First time ever. And I’m sharing it with you.
You may use it too! Read these wonderful words and claim them over your life.
I am no better than you are….so you are every bit as wonderful as this says. Really.
I believe we each need to give a Valentine to ourselves. If you’d like, make it into your wallpaper, print it out and READ it daily!
YOU are amazing and wonderful and the best Valentine you will ever have!!